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De-Inked

SNL "Turlington's Lower Back Tattoo Remover" from Alexander Serpico on Vimeo.

Ah, tattoos. It's a popular topic in the Wonsil household these days as well as the Champions Club website. I read Emma's post and all of the comments and I just wanted to share the perspective of someone who is almost three times older than a high school senior. I'm going to respond to both the points made in the post and in the comments.

Tattoos Are Divisive. 

This was apparent from the comments. Even people who get them know this. Tattoo placement is a very important decision because deep-down people know that it may limit opportunities if a key decision maker discovers that they have one or more. There are people who are for tattoos and those who are against them but there seems to be few people without an opinion. The person with the widest audience of acceptance is the one who isn't closed to the idea of a tattoo but doesn't have one yet. That person has made no enemies!

Risky Business

Getting a tattoo is still considered "risky" behavior by health care professionals. Any practice that involves needles exposes one to blood-borne diseases like hepatitis or even HIV. The industry has responded by adopting safe needle practices and by getting artists and parlors licensed. The American Red Cross used to refuse blood donations from people with tattoos but now only limits blood donations until a certain amount of time passes after getting the tattoo. For someone with a rare blood type (like mine), getting a tattoo could mean taking potentially life-saving blood away from a desparate patient.

CrossFit Subculture

Are tats unique to the CrossFit subculture? Uhhhh, no. Tattoos are popular across all sports. One will find tattoos on many athletes in professional Baseball, Football, Hockey, Soccer, and certainly in Basketball. Getting tattooed has become a fairly common activity among elite athletes and not just CrossFitters.
 Athletes across all sports have tattoos. 

I'm 18...

You're free to choose young adults! Just don't make me pay for it.Yes, when one achieves the age of majority, society considers one an adult. One has the freedom to make adult decisions and to do adult things.  More accurately though, one joins the group of others who also have the right to make adult decisions. Someone may learn of your ink and decide not to hire you, not to let you be around their kids, or not to go on that first date with you. Then again, he or she may hire you, let you be a role model for their kids, and go on that first date with you. It just all depends on that other person. However, once you get the tat, you've chosen a side and run the risk of being excluded - fairly or unfairly.

 

A potential employer may wonder, "Why would I trust a young person who made a life-long decision on very limited life-experience with the management decisions of my company? Why should I hire someone whom I will have to shield from my customers just in case some of those customers are offended by tattoos? Even if the kid is very talented, is it worth the hassle?" Employers are also over 18 and have to make these kinds of adult decisions all of the time.

Consider parents, especially those who have sacrificed vacations, nicer cars, summer homes, etc. to create as many opportunities as possible for their children. They may decide to limit further resources (read: cutting off money) if they believe that their kids are squandering those sacrifices by getting a tattoo too early in life and reducing their opportunities. Parents are (well) over 18 and they have to make adult decisions about how to balance their children's futures with their own.

Many entertainers (who are also over 18) get tattoos and say, "This is who I am. Take it or leave it!" More thoughtful entertainers like Lena Headly of Game of Thrones and 300 fame (Interview with Craig Ferguson - listen carefully what she says at the 5:00 mark),  and Kevin Durant (Kevin Durant has Ink. Lots of it), basketball's nice guy, understand that if they ink up the way they want to, it will limit their marketability -- even though they are already wildly successful.

So you are free to do what you want but that doesn't mean you're free from the consequences of your choices. Welcome to adulthood my friends.

Art

Are tattoos considered art? You betcha! I have seen some beautiful tattoos and the skill required to do them is simply amazing. However, unless you are a tattoo artist and you do your own tattoos, you're only the canvas - you are not the artist. Even if one designs their own tattoo, it is still a commissioned piece. As the son of an artist, I can totally respect that. But like the great hair stylist or a brain surgeon, the talent of the tattoo artist generally shows up on other people's bodies and those people shouldn't lay claim to someone else's talent.

Toughness

Are tattoos getting more popular? Yes, and there has been a marked rise among women. There has also been a corresponding rise in the popularity of tattoo removal. You think getting stabbed by a pen for a couple of hours is tough? Try getting burned for eight to ten weeks in a row just to diminish a tattoo. People who get laser tattoo removal to improve their job prospects can spend up to ten times the amount of money for the original tattoo. Those who have had laser tattoo removal say it is extremely painful. Maybe as far as toughness goes, almost anyone can get a tattoo but it takes a real badass to have one removed. :-)

Decisions, Decisions

Everyone lives two lives: a short-term life and a long term one. We constantly make decisions that affect each of these lives. Should I save for retirement or spend my money now? Should I eat healthy or have a cheat day/month/decade? Should I smoke or not smoke? Do drugs? Have unprotected sex with multiple partners? Should I do CrossFit today or just watch TV? Any of these short-term decisions leads to outcomes in our long-term lives. This is certainly true for getting a tattoo. One should balance short term desires with the long term ramifications. The ability to discern when to act and when to delay gratification has a name. It's called maturity. I know I didn't have it when I was 18. Sometimes I wonder if I have it at 51!  But I can tell you this, it is a struggle to balance these two lives and it is much harder to do when you're younger. The good news? As you get older, the two lives come together and the choices become much easier.

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Reader Comments (10)

Mr. Wonsil, I love that you didn't just lecture the kids about not getting tattoos. This editorial is really well done, informative, and offers a lot of great advice that applies to more than just ink. Thank you for your contribution to the Champions Club!

I especially like when you talk about having a short-term life and a long-term life. A lot of people who are younger think about what is going to make them happy now, and they sometimes forget about the long-term consequences of bad habits, poor choices, etc. I struggle with this in the winter especially when I don't work out as much and don't eat well, because I just think "I'll eat better tomorrow and I'll workout tomorrow." But I feel like that mentality won't help me get things done that I need to get done today. It's carried over into doing chores and other tedious things that will build up in the long run.

March 12, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterMurley Burly

Good shit Mr. Wonsil. One of the best editorials as of late for sure.

You are the canvas, not the artist. True dat!

Same stuff Murley said. You got a great point across without preaching - something I need to take note from. I also noticed how Lena Headley said there was "no room"on her arm.

March 12, 2014 | Registered CommenterChris Sinagoga

Nice post Mark, fair and balanced... Here's a real world situation to reinforce the idea of having to make an "adult decision", fair or unfair... We were hiring for a manager position where I work, we had a number of solid candidates and had to trim the list down to three for a second round of interviews. After the entire process was complete and we hired a really great guy I was talking to the other two interviewers about the whole process and you'll never guess what came up... tattoos. It turns out all three of us liked one of the candidates, probably enough to include him in the second round but none of us did, and we all had to admit why... he had tattoos showing under his shirtsleeve, stopping at his wrist and another peaking just above his collar. So, fair or unfair, this guy didn't get a shot because three different people had an opinion about tattoos and their appropriateness for a manager level role at a law firm. The really ironic thing is, the great guy we hired has a tattoo but his is hidden on his back... Obviously these attitudes could soften as tattoos become more & more prevelant and the tattoo generation morphs into the hiring generation but Mr. Wonsil's message about short term affecting long term is VERY important.

March 13, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterMr. Carey

okay...I finally have a chance to sit down and write a response. Great post by Mr. Wonsil. Interesting enough I was reading a strength and conditioning manual on football preparation and in the foreword the writer discusses how there is a dichotomy in sports related to a meritocracy versus gerontocracy system. Basically a meritocracy is based on performance, results, or your own merits and ability, while a gerontocracy is a system governed by elders. For instance, Murley's post about physical education could be construed as that the gerontocracy's plan for physical education curriculum is not conducive to today's youth and the situations they are facing....

Okay back to my point. I can see that the person getting the tattoo may view this as something earned by the freedom of turning 18 but it is not. This may sound weird but freedom is not an arbitrary age designated by your "escape" from the homefront to the lusher greens of college life, freedom is paying your own way...whether it is school, a place to live, or even Crossfit for that matter (why Crossfit because when you pay your own way, when you put in the work, you don't have to rely on or blame someone else for the outcome and that is freedom.)

That being said, I don't want to come across as a rookie old guy in the newest class of the gerontocracy. I think there is an inherent bias in the "adult" world that doesn't just involve tattoos, but includes your looks in general (good looking people get better jobs with better pay), your health (overweight versus fit individuals) , your race or ethnicity and your gender (Crossfit is an example right now with their transgender issue in the games). So in my opinion it is hard to say follow my lead when the path is a bit crooked.

An old saying goes, "if you don't like the rules, play a different game".

March 13, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterBrian T

EXCELLENT comment Coach Brian!!! You could not be more right. "Hippies" used to not get job interviews because of their long hair. Women might not get an interview in many science gigs. You couldn't get a job at EDS if you had facial hair or didn't wear a suite. Of course, race bias has been around far too long. While there are some things that are easily changed: your clothing, your facial hair, or your weight (maybe) but you cannot easily change your race, your gender, or your basic looks. A tattoo is an example of something that's more like the second group. Once you've got it, it's difficult to get rid of it and if it's in a very visible place, it can work against you. Or at least until the next generation of HR managers have tattoos!

Another place one might see this gerontacracy is in education levels. HR departments are not often good judges of talent or ability so they will look at your schooling. One can be perfect for a job but if you don't have some credentials, you may be looked over. There's a fabulous woman named Jeri Ellsworth who worked on augmented reality glasses for the Valve corporation which makes the famous Steam gaming platform. Jeri has done many amazing things: race car driver, roller derby girl, and silicon chip engineer. All this and she never graduated from high school! However, her path was much more difficult because of this. Now people know her for her merit but it was a much tougher road than if she had some schooling behind her. Here's an interview with her if you have about an hour. She's a fascinating "young" lady and it's well worth the time in my opinion.

Interview of Jeri Ellsworth

March 13, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterMr. Wonsil

Wow Mr. Wonsil very well written post!! I completely understand all of the points made. It makes me think a lot about things. Especially the short term vs long term. I wish I had more to say but I would just be repeating what has been commented already.

March 13, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterMeghan (Murley#2)

That being said, George Clooney in "from dust til dawn" has one of the coolest tats ever.

March 13, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterBrian t

Or you could get a clock tattoo'd on the bottom of your foot to remind you to always be on time! Now that is a practical idea.

March 14, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterBrian t

Brian, that is the worst one yet

March 14, 2014 | Registered CommenterChris Sinagoga

I get it: step in time!

March 14, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterMr. Wonsil

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